What’s My Offer?

 

This question makes me feel vulnerable.

What is it that I have to offer?

Who am I to think I have something valuable to offer to the world? I’m supposed to be humble so as not to seem arrogant. How do I describe my offer without tooting my own horn?

On the flip side is the idea that I have to sell myself, that to earn a living, I have to be of use, my services must be purchased so I can survive. I need to fit a mold or service that people value enough to pay for.

After thinking about it more, I conclude that I can view my offer as what I alone have to share with the world. My own unique contribution that only I can provide, that promotes the highest good, win-win for me and the world and then it all feels right. Vulnerability is replaced with a sense of purpose, connection, contribution, meaning and belonging.

I’m doing what is best for me and the world when I do what contributes to the highest creativity, flow, connection, depth and evolution of my unique abilities and interests from the depths of my soul. The logical heart is the combination of working with, not against our biology and human experience by recognizing and becoming adept at integrating emotions, challenges and the stories we tell ourselves in a way that empowers us to love even more.

By way of the logical heart we become more compassionate towards ourselves so we may extend this to others. Instead of running away from the pain, the difficulties, we create enough room to be able to explore and integrate them in a way that deepens and expands our love and connection instead of shrinking, hiding, resisting, attacking and avoiding.

I want this for everyone. The highest love, contribution, meaning, purpose, connection, interdependence, creativity, abundance, joy and belonging. The highest growth, love and cooperation which promotes the highest good for us all.

This all starts with each individual person living from their deepest truths. It all starts from within, by staying connected to the logical heart, listening to its wisdom, empowering each person who’s willing and ready to choose what’s most loving for themselves.

To heal/integrate the traumas that keep us stuck in repetitive shame loops where we feel like something’s missing and we feel like we must not be worthy, smart or lovable enough for things ever to get really, really good, at least not for us, we think. This limits us and creates more of what we really don’t want, but we don’t know how to correct it or may not even be aware that we are caging ourselves by not even trying to heal/change. We let fear rule.

I want to do my part to empower ourselves to become strong and resilient by allowing ourselves to acknowledge our hurts, our feelings, to fully grieve, be validated, share, support one another, be empathetic while also having healthy boundaries where we can all feel safe, worthy, that we belong and are free to be our true selves and pursue our dreams, creating a life that’s best for us.

To stay true to ourselves, true to love and the highest good by sharing our unique talents and by doing what flows the most love, connection and joy.

The grand vision being to create the most nurturing environments for ourselves and everyone else by living from the depths of our logical hearts.

I would like to help you disentangle yourself from whatever is holding you back. To help you love yourself enough to enforce healthy boundaries and reconnect with the real, deep down you. To do right by you. To trust yourself and the universe so that you can do more of what you really wanna.

Maybe you haven’t been in touch with the real you in so long that you don’t even know that person anymore or how to find your way back.

I used to be that lost person, feeling stuck, like something was missing and not knowing how to find my way back to what felt good, right, meaningful, on purpose and at home. That deep abiding, all encompassing love that I used to feel all the time when I was very very little was such a distant memory, was it even real?

After years of searching, learning, growing, changing, developing new perspectives, practices, habits while also spiritually surrendering, I reconnected with the love that was the real me and am forever grateful.

Now I want to help others return to their true selves and highest love.

I’m not going to tell you what everyone wants to hear, that there is a quick, instant fix. There isn’t. It’s a constant process for the rest of our lives.

I can say that there are practices which have helped me, that you can find your way back to your true self and live a life that feels on track, that is more joyful, peaceful, deeper, meaningful and feels like you are living the best life that you can.

Would you want to learn these practices, the ones that have worked for me?

If you want to and are really ready to work at it, because these changes take persistence, courage, honesty and willingness to change, then I may be able to help.

Message me for a free personal session to see if my offer is a match for you.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” 
― Marianne Williamson